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faithful and clear-minded

5 years
pastoring

100+ sermons
preached

B.S. in Psychology

Amen Clinic brain health certified

Where Overwhelm Meets Peace. Where Faith Meets Function.

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You don’t have to stay stuck in your head.
Let’s clear the mental clutter, restore your focus, and create space to breathe again.

The method ❊

Anchor the soul, calm the mind
Faith-rooted sessions that create emotional stillness and spiritual steadiness—no fluff, just truth and tools

01

Name what’s heavy, clear what’s foggy
You’ll identify patterns, process overwhelm, and create language for what you’re carrying so it no longer carries you.

02

Leave with clarity, live with intention
You’ll walk away with a plan, a renewed mind, and a better way forward—because healing should be actionable.

03

How we create clarity that lasts.

Pastor
Speaker

Mental Health Coach

For almost a decade, I’ve walked with people through seasons of anxiety, burnout, and spiritual fog.

As a pastor and a current master’s-level student in mental health counseling, I’ve seen firsthand that clarity isn’t just emotional—it’s spiritual and practical too.

Remedios Coaching was born out of a need I saw over and over again:
People are showing up for everyone else… while silently unraveling inside.

My sessions are honest, hope-filled conversations where faith isn’t pushed aside—it's part of the process. You’ll leave with real tools, renewed perspective, and a plan you can actually follow.

Clarity Session
$75.00

Not ready for a full coaching plan? This 90-minute session is a great place to start, whether you're seeking clarity, navigating a specific situation, or simply wanting to explore coaching before committing to a longer plan.

✔ 1 private 90-minute coaching session
✔ Personalized support & actionable next steps

Monthly Momentum
$210.00

For those ready to build steady momentum and stay accountable while working toward personal growth, clarity, and wholeness.


✔ 3 private 60-minute coaching sessions each month
✔ Ongoing accountability & support
✔ Flexible scheduling
✔ Session notes & action steps provided

6-Week Clarity Intensive
$450.00

A focused 6-week coaching journey designed to help you break through roadblocks and build sustainable clarity. Ideal for clients seeking change, direction, or breakthroughs in a short period of time.


✔ Weekly 60-minute coaching sessions (6 total)
✔ Tailored coaching framework based on your goals
✔ Mid-week check-ins for added support
✔ Personalized action plan

Real Breakthroughs,
new chapters.

“Ruben counsels from a place of realism and compassion. He challenges your patterns of thought and asks the kind of questions that shift your perspective. There’s this thin line where you’re almost mad at him—because he’s right—and at yourself for not seeing it that way sooner. 😂😂😂”

Devin B

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"The first time I experienced grief I was so thankful I met Ruben. I didn't know how I'd ever get out of the rut I was in without our sessions. The pinpoint accuracy he was able to lead through what I didn't know was holding me back"

Johnathan H.

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“Working with Ruben was a turning point for me. He was the first person I had deep, intellectual conversations with, and he helped me find clarity in my passion for photography. By opening his home, supporting me behind the scenes at Cuhow, and being someone I could talk to during those early stages of growth, he played a huge role in my journey. If it weren’t for his support and the trust he and the church placed in me, I honestly don’t think I’d be where I am today.”

Derek J.

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“From personal battles to career struggles, Ruben has been someone I can continuously turn to with confidence, knowing he has the ability to understand me and ultimately push me in a direction that benefits my life.

He is keen to meeting people where they are at and has passion for understanding others. Ruben offers digestible advice and quickly adapts to you and your circumstances. I am beyond grateful for Ruben’s guidance in my life.”

Sara D.

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Start with Clarity — a Free Discovery Session

Before we begin working together, let’s connect. This complimentary discovery session gives you space to share your story, your goals, and what’s feeling unclear right now, no pressure, just a conversation.

If you're unsure where to start or want to learn more about how coaching can support you, this is the perfect first step toward finding clarity and wholeness.